Don't judge me. You wanna judge me, put on a black gown and get a gavel. - Lil' Wayne
Marriage is the chief cause of divorce. - Groucho Marx
** Part of the reason I have adopted the sometimes sardonic "It happens" response is because, when my father died 22 years ago, I became keenly aware of just how incompetent people are in the face of death and tragedy. Canned advice, promises of prayer, and admonishments not to question "the will of God." Meh.